The psychology behind the laws of seduction doesn’t have to include dubious intentions nor does it stop simply at attracting someone who’s caught your eye. It is a psychological game that anyone can master.

Have you been chasing people without success? Read on to find out what you can do to win them over.

Choosing the Right Person

The target of your seduction game determines whether you will succeed or not. Don’t just go about chasing everybody but choose those who are susceptible to your spell.

These are people with a void that you can fill or those who see some exotic qualities in you. They are usually unhappy or isolated, and this is what makes them quite easy to attract.

Go for those who possess some qualities that bring out your strong emotions so that your approach to woo them will be more dynamic and natural rather than appear to be forced.

Approaching Them Indirectly

Being too direct in the first place can make your target reject you. Early on, your manner should not portray you as a seducer but as someone who wants a neutral relationship.

Give your target time to become aware of you gradually and if possible, you can use a third party to approach them to ensure they feel secure with you before you strike.

Sending Mixed Signals

Once your victim is aware of you and is somehow interested, act fast by stirring their emotions before they dump you for someone else. Keep them interested in you by sending mixed signals: both cunning and innocent, both earthly and spiritual, both tender and tough.

Mixed signals are both confusing and fascinating and will create an enigmatic and elusive aura that will make them want to learn more about you and this will draw them closer to you.

Coming Out as an Object of Desire

No one would want to associate with a person who others neglect and avoid. Many want to be around those who already have attracted others. When you have some people around you, it will create an impression that there is something good in you and this will make your victim be thirsty for you.

Create that aura of importance – of being court and wanted by many – and it will reach a point where your victim will want to drag you away from the crowd of suitors.

Stirring Discontent and Anxiety to Create a Void

It is not easy to seduce a satisfied person so you must instill disharmony and tension into the mind of your target to arouse feelings of unhappiness in them and feelings of discontent with what’s going on around them and also with themselves.

While in the process of seducing them, make them feel inadequate and then present yourself as the right person to solve their problems. Anxiety and pain are the perfect forerunners to pleasure and if you manage to create them in your target you shall have manufactured a void that only you can fill.

Mastering the Implication Art

In the process of making your victim feel inadequate, you don’t have to be too obvious because if they discover your intention, they will become resistant. However, they will have no defense if you apply the technique of implication.

But how do you do this? You need to plant elusive hints into their minds that will take root after some days and even appear to them as if they are the ones who came up with the idea.

The trick is to make some bold statements which you later retract and apologize. You can also make some ambiguous comment or get involved in some banal talk blended with enticing glances that penetrates deep into the unconscious mind of the target and convey what you really meant.

Entering Into Their Spiritual Realm

Many people are hard to seduce because they are stubborn and have chosen to live in their own world which is quite difficult to be part of. The best way to break this stubbornness is to enter into their spiritual realm. Love what your target loves, play by his/her rules and try to adapt to their moods.

After a while, their deep-rooted narcissism will be stroked and their defenses will be lowered. Once you achieve that, indulge their every whim and mood, leaving them with nothing to resist or react against.

Seduction Requires Creating Temptation

The art of seduction demands that you create into your target something that they can hope for. Give them a peek of the good things to come, including pleasures. You can do this by viewing Asian nude pics together or visiting romantic places. You must arouse a temptation in them that is beyond their control.

Find that fantasy that they want to materialize or something that they have been hoping for and make it appear as if you are the only way for them to achieve these. Stimulate in your target a state of mind stronger than the anxieties and doubts that accompany it, and they will have no option but to follow you.

Keeping them in Suspense

When you are predictable, you will lose the charm that keeps your target glued to you. The best way to keep them closer is to keep them in suspense. This will give you an upper hand as they will keep guessing your next move.

Remember that the moment you do to them something they never expected, they will feel more excited that when you do what they expect. Give them a thrill with surprises and they will keep hanging around you for more.

The Success of Your Seduction Depends on You

After going through this seduction guide, itis clear that to succeed as a seducer, you must look back into yourself and modify your character to suit the expectations of your target. You may be forced to change your habits or even to change your friends for you to win the heart of your victim.

It is a very delicate balance because rushing them can put them off and when you are so slow, you can make someone snatch them from you. You need to know the right time for everything. Contact us to learn more about the art of seduction.