Never Go to Bed Angry: How to Choose a Mattress as a Couple

Choose a mattress

Did you recently tie the knot? Are you in search of that perfect mattress that your husband or wife will appreciate?

Picking a mattress is not as simple as you may think it is. Sure, you can go for the best-looking mattress or perhaps the most expensive one.

But that doesn’t guarantee that it’s the right one for you.

If you choose a mattress that doesn’t match your needs, it may have adverse effects on your health. So how do you pick the right mattress?

Continue reading below as we dive deeper into the mattress conundrum.

How to Choose a Mattress That’s Right for You

Choosing a mattress is like picking the right set of clothes for a special occasion. You don’t simply go for the most expensive. You consider several factors other than the price tag.

Let’s take a look at six of the most important things you should consider.

1. Start with the Size

The first thing you need to consider is the size of the mattress. The size relies heavily on the size of your bed at home.

The typical choice of newlyweds is a king-sized bed. It measures 76×80 inches. Another option is the queen-sized bed, which measures 60×80 inches.

In case you and your partner are tall, there is the california king. It is a variation of the king-sized, only 4 inches narrower but 4 inches longer.

Size is important because it affects your sleeping style. If you love cuddling, then you will likely be happy with a smaller bed. But if you love to sleep with more personal space, you will likely go for a bigger bed.

When choosing a mattress, you simply go for a size that is appropriate to the size of your bed.

2. Type Matters

After dealing with the size of the size, you can then move to the type of mattress. There are many types of mattress to choose from. Each one having its own pros and cons.

One of the most popular is the air mattress. This is a type of mattress that you can adjust, depending on the level of firmness that you want.

Another is the memory foam mattress. This type is perfect for people who love to move a lot while in bed. They basically adapt to the contour of your body, depending on your movement.

There is also the two-sided mattress. This type caters to people with certain physical conditions. A two-sided mattress on the fly offers different levels of firmness.

It comes with gel layers that react to your body heat. This is perfect for people with suffering from musculoskeletal issues. It is also a good choice for pregnant women.

3. The Right Support

Getting the right level of support from a mattress is non-negotiable. Support directly affects the condition of your spine.

The key is to select a mattress that helps you maintain a neutral spine. The mattress should provide ample support considering your varying sleeping positions.

Since there are two of you in the bed, the mattress takes in more weight. More weight requires more support from the mattress.

4. Your Sleeping Style

Since you and your partner will be sleeping on the same bed every single day, you need to discuss your respective sleeping styles. Tell your partner if you want a hard or soft mattress.

Do you sleep on your side? Or do you prefer sleeping on your stomach? These things matter, especially if your styles differ from each other.

If your partner is suffering from sleep apnea or back pains, you may need to make some accommodations. But if you both have the same sleeping styles, then choosing a mattress will not be that hard.

5. Firmness Counts

We mentioned earlier that firmness plays a role in a mattress’ performance. Therefore, you need to understand what different firmness levels can give you.

If you want something that is highly adaptable to almost all body types, then go for a mattress with an adaptive feel. This is also perfect for couples with contrasting sleeping positions.

There is also a split mattress. This is a great choice for couples who cannot agree on the spacing in one mattress.

If you have extra money to spare, you can opt for a fully-customized mattress. Here, you can get one mattress that you can adjust on both sides.

Keep in mind that the firmness of the mattress may affect your health and well-being.

6. Test It

Lastly, before parting with your money, you need to test the mattress. When you test it, you need to do so together with your partner.

When going to the store, make sure you wear comfortable clothes. If you have questions on your mind, don’t hesitate to ask the salesperson.

Take note of the pros and cons of each mattress that you test. After trimming down your options to two or three, lie on each one of them for 20 minutes.

Move around the bed and roll around. The key is to see if you are causing discomfort to your partner every time you change sleeping positions.

Always remember that a mattress is something that you will use for a number of years. Which means you should never settle with only one brand.

Take your sweet time when choosing a mattress. Try out the various offerings from different manufacturers.

Do your own research and due diligence online. Check out the different customer reviews. You can even ask for suggestions from friends and relatives you trust.

But most importantly, don’t buy something that you and your partner don’t agree upon.

Choose a Mattress That Offers More Than Comfortable Sleep

Living the married life involves changes and adjustments. Once you choose a mattress that best suits you, you also need to cover other areas that affect your marriage. The key is to continue learning and reading on things that will help improve your married life.

We encourage you to check our other blog posts on health and other stuff. We discuss topics from choosing the best supplements to improving your diet, all here for you to discover and enjoy!

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