We have all heard the stats…according to the CDC, there are almost 800,000 divorces each year, but why? Divorce is a complex situation that no one thinks they will find themselves in when they say “I do,” but regardless of the best-laid plans, it happens. We are going to dive in and take a look at the top 6 reasons why people get divorced to help you get a better understanding of this tricky subject. 

Let’s take a look!

1. Money 

It should come as no surprise that money issues are one of the leading causes of divorce. Couples who are experiencing different financial ideologies often find it hard to reconcile their differences. In some cases, a spouse is overspending, and in other cases, a spouse might be ready to take the next step financially when the other is not on board. 

2. Infidelity 

Infidelity is a blanket term for deception in marriage. It can come in the form of adultery or even financial infidelity. When an affair occurs, it can be the final straw in the marriage that leads to divorce. This can be a challenging cause to manage if a couple is living together during a divorce as one partner might be moving on more quickly than the other. 

3. Domestic Abuse 

Domestic abuse is a terrifying ordeal to manage and in many cases, getting divorced is the only way out. Unfortunately, studies show that 20% (possibly more) of marriages have domestic abuse involved in them. In many cases, conflict can arise as bickering and arguing, but eventually, it can evolve into violent acts against a spouse. 

4. Getting Married Too Young 

Young love that leads to marriage is often cited as a reason for getting divorced. The average age of marriage is increasing each year as people are more interested in discovering who they are and getting a career off the ground rather than starting a family. Unfortunately for those who marry too young, they realize they want the freedom to discover themselves after being married.

5. Intimacy Issues 

Intimacy issues can affect men and women in the marriage and are often one of the causes of divorce. Sexual dysfunction in a partner or lack of attraction can cause deep-rooted issues over time that push couples into getting divorced. Beyond sex, the emotional connection and empathy that coincides with intimacy can be lost as well. 

6. Health Problems 

Through sickness and health doesn’t always work for everyone. An illness can create grief, debt, and stress in a marriage that is oftentimes irreparable. In some cases, the spouse that is ill feels the need to separate from the other out of guilt for their illness, and in other cases, the healthy spouse feels trapped in the caregiver position. 

Why People Get Divorced 

Understanding why people get divorced could help you understand your own reasonings or help you avoid getting divorced at all. Keep in mind; each marriage is unique, so use this helpful list as a guidebook, not a rulebook! 

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